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I would like to share a story of how Gratitude and Guidance play into our lives…

It was almost a decade ago but I can still remember it because it was a wake-up call for me.

On that particular day, my beloved wife was feeling a bit down and out of sorts. So while I was out at the store I saw the November copy of Oprah Magazine and I bought it for her thinking it might cheer her up a bit…

Little did I know, as usual something way smarter than me was guiding my actions.

For three days in a row, I too had been facing massive challenges. These challenges came in a wide variety, ranging from character attacks, professional attacks, to a personal journey back to my emotional childhood in which I questioned the very value of the love I offer. To say the least, it was a tough week! At one point I was in deep pain and although I knew it was emotional, my physical heart hurt. I gave my wife the magazine and went about my day.

A little later that morning, I entered my office and saw that my beloved wife had taken a page out of the Oprah Magazine I had bought her and clipped it up on my computer. I would like to share with you what it said about gratitude.

Gratitude comes easily when our lives are in order-when the bills are paid, the children are behaving, our health is good. But our challenges are what bring the chance for transformation. And it is for our deepest pain that we can be most grateful, because we know our hardship will deliver a lesson that refines our character. As you practice gratitude this month, give thanks not only for what you have but also for what you have escaped. When difficulties arise, ask yourself, “What is the lesson for me in this?” And when you can give thanks in the midst of your trial, know that are becoming your finest.”

~OPRAH MAGAZINE, NOVEMBER 2000

As I sat at my desk, tears of gratitude poured down my face. I became instantly aware of all the things in my life that I had to be grateful for including the amazing woman I am blessed to call my wife.

On the surface, it’s easy for people to judge me as a tough guy. I lost my boyish looks during a rock-climbing incident in 1990 and my muscular body is evidence of my sport of bodybuilding. However, below the obvious, I am a deep thinker, a spiritually centered being, someone who likes a good laugh and despite the exterior, I am a big softy.

It is in these moments of awakening to everything I have to be grateful for that I know my reason and purpose in life.

This article is an except from my upcoming book “Don’t Read This…Unless You Want More Money” due for release in early May 2010.

I look forward to your feedback and comments.

With gratitude,

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What do you believe is stopping you from having more  Power, Passion, Prosperity and Purpose?

Many years ago, I remember working with a client who was on the very brink of making a quantum leap in her finances.
This lady had this wonderful idea which we had worked on and really refined. She took the project by the reigns, did the leg work, did the research, and then found the investors.

The excitement was building, and with, her dreams started to get bigger. Finally the negotiations were over, the deal was done. All that was left to do was getting a signature, and then suddenly, it all started to go south. You may be wondering: Why?

In an instant this person started to talk herself out of doing the very thing she’d been dreaming of doing for years.
Why would anyone do that you ask… Simple answer, FEAR!

Maybe you can relate… Have you had that experience, where you were just about to get what you want…and towards the end you let fear take over?

Over the last year, the media has been feeding us some very sticky  “stuff” around how there’s not going to be enough, (of anything, especially money). Let’s face it, they did a wicked job in convincing the majority of people that the current economy was in the toilet, and about to be flushed. Every five minutes the media tells us about the high unemployment rate, closures and credit crisis just to name a few. If you start buying into these media messages, it’s easy to start creating fears around your ability to create real abundance and true wealth and this of course will keeps us stuck!

One certain way to predict your future is to live in fear!

Because If You Fear It, It Will Come!

Here’s what’s interesting for me: Many of the people I know in business, did indeed start off the year with some adjustment needed in how they did business. However, every single one of the people that I know who have made changes that can now see needed to be changed earlier, are now, less than a year later, doing brilliantly. What’s the difference between them and the average guy or gal? They were willing to change and adjust what was no longer working.

Those who adjust the fastest make the most.

They didn’t wait to adjust. Here’s what is equally interesting…Even though they adjusted, not one of them backed off on their investment in themselves or their business.

So the question becomes:

Have you, consciously or unconsciously, cut back on investing in yourself and your business in order to fulfill the prophecies of the media?

Listen, they don’t run your life, unless you let them. Take back the reigns, do what you know you must do. Master your own “Attracting Force”.


Your Attracting Force is what unconsciously determines not only what you attract but also what you repel.

Mastering your Attracting Force gives you your personal keys to your Power, Passion, Prosperity and Purpose. My Attracting Force™ program is a system that will turn those keys and unlock your new affluent future for you!

If you’ve not attended yet, what are you waiting for? You will love it.  Look, if you have been reading this blog, or listening to my podcasts, you know I’m all about empowering you to the highest levels of what I call the full spectrum of success…. Affluence in your finances, your health, your relationships and the resonance that you put forth. Because, as you know, if you are familiar with  my work, we all need to raise the consciousness of the planet, and you are an important part of that.

In case you’re interested in finding out more. The Attracting Force™ program gets you Building True Wealth & Abundance From The Inside Out, applying the practical science of affluence.

Staying on Track:
Give yourself at least a moment everyday to stop and fully deeply imagine yourself smiling with calm confidence as you become immune to the negativity of others scurrying around in confused panic over their finances.
Right now ask yourself:

What will my life be like at the next level?

Fear is one the biggest blocks between you and the success you desire, right? So again; stop for a moment and allow yourself to ask yourself:

What would happen if I were able to destroy my fear?

Just so you know, when you attend the Attracting Force™ program you will completely crush your 3 biggest fears… Guaranteed!

Can you imagine how unstoppable you’ll be with your fears out of the way?

Let yourself imagine how that would impact the quality of your relationships, the quality of your health, and of course, the quality of your finances!

Honestly, Attracting Force™ gives you the competitive edge without losing your soul!

Whatever you decide to do, remember that;

Those who adjust the fastest and invest in themselves the most are the ones who will receive the greatest levels of Power, Passion, Prosperity, and Purpose.

I look forward to your feedback and comments.
Until next time, live with courage, Dov…

P.S. If you want to find out about the Attracting Force™ event, go take a look at: http://www.attractingforce.com

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Do you have: Money Problems or Belief Problems about Money?

What does it take to shift from feeling and experiencing financial panic to feeling and experiencing financial flow?

“I can still remember being a child hiding with my mom and siblings as the rent man would bang, bang, bang the door knocker…

Our hearts would race, afraid to so much as breath for fear of being heard.  Facing the rent man without the rent meant the potential for homelessness.”

You know what’s fascinating– my mother always made sure the rent was paid, even if it was late. We were never evicted or homeless, and yet for the first twenty plus years of my life at the end of each month, as rent day came approached I carried that childhood anxiety with me.
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Spirituality, Wealth and the Freedom to Choose
Before you go any further let me boil it down to the bare bones for you:

I know you’ve been told and may have even come to believe that that becoming wealthy is all about luck and connections.

That’s just not the whole truth! As someone famous once said;

Luck is where opportunity and preparation collide.

Yes, becoming wealthy does have a connections component; have you noticed that successful people like to hang out with other successful people? It makes sense that if you were making tons of dough, would you want to hang out with a bunch of people whining about how there’s not enough?  No!


The secret to creating lasting success and wealth is all about you finding and recognizing something I will refer to as your “Unique Value Set.”

Your Unique Value Set is the part of you that is worth way more than any X number of dollars an hour.

It’s the part of you that when you discover it will allow you to see opportunities that you would have previously been completely blind to. It’s the part of you that is already super qualified and doesn’t need another degree or certification in order to tap into an abundant flow of cash when you need it.


I know that you may have many false ideas and myths about money, wealth, and your access to it. Clearly, in today’s economic climate, it is of vast importance for you to discover keys and unlock the potential within you that you may never have known were there. Fairly obviously, the focus of this article is about money/wealth/abundance, how it works, and how you can have more of it.


Maybe you already have a very nice flow of wealth and general abundance…that’s great!  However, let me ask you as much as anyone else…what would your life be like at the next level? I mean let’s face it, at some point in time, no matter how much money you are earning, there’s a point when you realize that you are living in a comfort zone that may well have become a gilded cage, and you know you want to explore and experience life at the next level.


Complacency is the prison where those who worship the god of “it’s not that bad” live.

I know that many will tell you that money and wealth are not spiritual… I genuinely believe you can be wealthy and spiritual but there again you can be poor and spiritual. It’s simply a matter of which “Wealth Station” you are tuned into, what you are resonating to attract and repel. However, owning your power to choose to have either is not the same as settling for financial struggle because it’s some kind of a ‘good spiritual’ excuse for not getting off your butt and taking action.


By the way, if you think poor people are more spiritual, let me fill you in: I grew up in a ghetto where poverty was rife, and although there were some wonderful, loving, and even the occasional spiritual people around, the people who we might judge as being less than spiritual were definitely more in the majority.

Let me share with you:

It’s a lot harder to be connected to spirit when you’re running from the rent man.

Money is not evil. Money is neutral.  Money is not pure good.  Money is nothing without ‘us’ using it for whatever outcome we decide upon.


Nevertheless, isn’t it time you had enough of it in order to do what you need to do?
Let me ask you: Just as an example, how would your life be different if you had an extra $750 a month? What would that mean to your lifestyle? What would that mean to your family and the people you love? How would you feel about yourself with an extra $20,000 in your bank account? Now you may be reading this and you’re presently making $200,000 +, and $20,000 doesn’t seem too big to you.

Just stop for a moment and and ask yourself, what would your life be like with an extra 40% added to your annual income?


Oh, one more thing; if you’re feeling guilty or unspiritual for even thinking such thoughts, you might want to check your Bible and read about King Solomon, the richest king who ever lived. According to the Old Testament, God seemed to like him well enough.


Not owning our power to create and be in the abundant flow of funds because of some false spiritual pretense is a great way to abdicate personal responsibility. (But it’s still B.S)


Those who decide to step up and own their power, see personal and even collective responsibility as a spiritual act that allows them the freedom to become more of who they truly are. Any fool can be doubting and skeptical, only the courageous do what it takes in the face of what “they” say they shouldn’t.


Do you have what it takes to step up, own your power, and create the kind of wealth that sets an example of what success and wealth building is all about?


I look forward to reading your comments and feedback

Until next time live with the courage to claim your Unique Value Set and the abundance that goes with it.

With gratitude, Dõv…

P.S. If you want to find out more about tapping into your Unique Value Set, creating lasting wealth and getting 3 Hours of FREE Tele-seminars go take a look at http://www.QuantumWealthMastery.com

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