Do you have: Money Problems or Belief Problems about Money?

What does it take to shift from feeling and experiencing financial panic to feeling and experiencing financial flow?

“I can still remember being a child hiding with my mom and siblings as the rent man would bang, bang, bang the door knocker…

Our hearts would race, afraid to so much as breath for fear of being heard.  Facing the rent man without the rent meant the potential for homelessness.”

You know what’s fascinating– my mother always made sure the rent was paid, even if it was late. We were never evicted or homeless, and yet for the first twenty plus years of my life at the end of each month, as rent day came approached I carried that childhood anxiety with me.
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I realize this article is not for everyone, if you find it offensive, then please accept my apologies. The article is not intended to offend…It is however, intended to  shake awake those who have been asleep in a dream of worthlessness.

If you don’t feel worthy, if you are carrying shame that was put on you, or you put on yourself, there’s a good chance that you are resonating at a level of being worthless. The result will be that whatever you do for income will likely be a way for you to give of yourself away too cheaply.  This of course is another powerful qualifier of your lack of value and your ego-mind gets to be right, telling you that you’re a victim, and it’s not your fault, there’s nothing you can do about ‘it’.

Bull!

It’s time to step up: Deal with the guilt, shame, and crappy self worth; you are not a victim, unless you decide that’s what you are.

Start by making the decision to forgive yourself, and while you’re at it consider all the people you need to forgive because that’s not adding anything good to your resonance field either.

Very Important Point: Having read the last paragraph again I need to make something crystal clear:

Do not believe all the crap you’ve been feed about forgiving everyone else first, that ‘forgiveness is a holy path’. Here’s why most of the people I’ve met who are preaching this kind of fertilizer are by enlarge emotionally shut down, full of  buried resentment, topped off with a plastic smile.

That my friends is not, never will be, forgiveness.

I do agree that forgiveness can be a holy path, however, it needs to be ‘healthy forgiveness.’

Healthy Forgiveness has a very important level of accountability. In order to truly forgive we must first take full accountability for our part in whatever it was, (That doesn’t mean finding a new reason to beat the crap out of yourself) as well as seeing ‘their’ part in it.

Bottom line; not forgiving doesn’t help you or anyone else, but know this; healthy forgiveness has nothing to do with forgetting. And in truth:

There is no real forgiveness of another until we learn to forgive ourselves. ~Dõv Baron

Carrying around all that guilt, shame and resentment is like carrying an anti abundance shield, so take my advice and dump it like a bad enchilada. It’s up to you, what I want you to know whether you believe it or not, whether you are experiencing it or not, this is an abundant universe.  So drop your abundance shield, forgive yourself and decide what you need to do next. Or to put it another way:

Forgive and Let The Abundance Flow!

I look forward to your comments and feedback.

Until next time live with courage, Dov…

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Winning is an Inner game… for two.

I know how you feel, I’ve been there…I know you have your reasons to say ‘no’ to yourself, reasons to say ‘no’ to your dreams. 

Maybe you’ve been knocked down too many times, and you just don’t know if you can get up again.  But, know this:  As you stand here on the edge between where you were and where you want to be, life will throw you curve balls, life throws curve balls at us all.

Life may seem cruel and hard and what you need to know is, if you believe that then life will knock you down and it will keep you down, if you don’t find the courage to stand up.

Those around you may tell you that you are not good enough, and they may say it so often that you may even begin to believe it. If that happens, you will find yourself looking for someone or something to blame and every time you do, you are telling yourself that you don’t have what it takes to get up.

That’s a lie!

Life will knock you down, but that doesn’t matter anywhere as much as how hard you can get knocked down without giving up on yourself and on your dreams. I know you’ve been hurt, I know you’ve been disappointed…now what?

Many get hit and they never get up, others go to a certain point and they stop.  Let me ask you what would happen if you got up again?

What would happen if you held a greater vision of what you were capable of, and you held this vision despite everything they told you?

Don’t get me wrong, it might not be easy but, let me share with you what more than twenty-five years of research has shown: What is likely to happen firstly is there will be resistance; it could be resistance from your own ego-mind doing its best to keep you safe in the same old, (often miserable) comfort zone. Sometimes, the resistance is external, those who love you, telling you to be careful, “you don’t want to make a fool of yourself” or some other equally rational answer.

Seriously, stop for a moment and let me ask you this:

When you get to your deathbed…

do you think you’ll regret the times you looked foolish pursuing your dreams in order to live the life you came here to live, or do you think you would experience much more regret at not looking foolish and never reaching what you deeply now know you are capable of?

Listen carefully, your ego-mind can be like a ruthless crooked lawyer building a case using whatever it can while calling its lies “logical reasons”.  What you have to do is employ the fierce power that is the fire in your heart that cries out for you to live your dreams.

I get it! You’ve been knocked down and it hurts, the question is, will you get up?

And what will get you up?

What is it that will have you spring to your feet like Rocky and say,

“Is that the best you’ve got!?”

Decide you can, decide you can’t, either way you’re right.

Winning is an inner game and so is losing!

It’s a game played by two: Your authentic self, that gently whispers for the expression of your dreams and your ego-mind that wants to keep you ’safe’ screaming at you to stay safe by repressing those dreams.

I sign off each of these writings with the statement: ‘live with courage’ because…

courage is not the absence of fear, courage is when you are terrified and you get up and do it anyway!

Share this with your friends and leave me your feedback.
Until next time, “LIVE WITH COURAGE’’,
Dõv…

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Want to know some Manifestation Secrets ? Well give yourself a minute or two to examine some questions and I guarantee you’ll find them.

Would you be offended if someone gave you ‘the finger’?  Maybe you’re saying;”of course !” Well, imagine that you live on a small isolated island, Isla de Pascua (an island in the South Pacific ), do you think the finger would be offensive there?  Likely not.

Okay, what if you were a tourist from North America visiting that small isolated island and everyone you passed gave you ‘the finger’ and smiled while they were doing it? Do you think you’d still be offended?  My guess is still, yes, right?  Now, what if you suddenly discovered that on this island ‘the finger’ means ‘good morning’ , (by the way this is theoretical).  Do you think the level of offense would go down considerably?  Of course, it would.  It might take some getting used to, but within a fairly short period you would smile as you received the greeting.

We assign the meaning of something to the meaning we have given it, even if that meaning is limited or even incorrect.

What’s more, we also assume that the meaning is not only our own, but somewhat universal, or ‘common knowledge’.

How many times do you think you have had the experience of struggling with something that at some level you just knew should be so easy? You read everything you could, you got help from friends, and you practiced it over and over and still couldn’t get it.  Then, just as you are ready to give up , just as you are about to give up on ‘it’ or yourself , someone hands you exactly what you needed, the equation makes sense, and it all falls into place.

Do you remember one of those times? Do you remember how frustrating that can be?
Good, now that you’ve got that clear in your mind, think about this…

Do you ever remember trying to explain something to someone, who’s just not getting it? You tried showing them in as many different ways as you can but they are just not getting it. You may even have told a friend or family member how frustrated you are and that “it’s common knowledge , why can’t they get it?”

Do you also realize that the thing you were once frustrated at trying to learn or understand is now something that you take for granted?

What you may not have previously thought about is, there is a tipping-point in knowledge ; it’s the point where we go from knowing the thing we wanted to know, to now knowing it unconsciously. In other words, we know it without having to think about it.  It’s at this point where the ego-mind can make a grab for the knowledge and claim it as ‘common knowledge’.  If the ego-mind grabs the info it will have you thinking that there is something wrong with someone for not knowing what you know .  However, please remember this…

‘common knowledge’ means it’s common to you.

Coming back to that moment when you went from complete frustration and wanting to give-up on mastering ‘it’ and then you are handed the exact formula you need and everything clicks into place, you see it all so clearly and you feel the relief.

Maybe you’ve had that feeling when it comes to manifesting?

As a sidebar, I wanted to let you know that for a little while longer I will be making something available to you that will take you across the tipping-point of knowledge when it comes to manifesting , knowledge that will make it all fall into place .

I’m giving you a 5 FREE video course into some of the most overlooked ingredients of successful manifestation.

Thousands of people like you have already had the opportunity to see these lessons and left some very enlightening comments. I cannot guarantee that I will be able to continue to give this course away for free for much longer.

So please help yourself and feel free to forward the link to your friends who also may want to know more about successful manifestation . To take a look and register to receive these lessons go over to www.EquationForManifestation.com

Again, they’re FREE!

I look forward to your feedback, and remember to be patient with yourself about learning when you receive exactly what you need, and it will all fall into place.

Until next time, live with courage, Dov…

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