If you don’t feel worthy, if you are carrying shame that was put on you, or you put on yourself, there’s a good chance that you are resonating at a level of being worthless. The result will be that whatever you do for income will likely be a way for you to give of yourself away too cheaply.  This of course is another powerful qualifier of your lack of value and your ego-mind gets to be right, telling you that you’re a victim, and it’s not your fault, there’s nothing you can do about ‘it’.

Bull!

It’s time to step up: Deal with the guilt, shame, and crappy self worth; you are not a victim, unless you decide that’s what you are.

Start by making the decision to forgive yourself, and while you’re at it consider all the people you need to forgive because that’s not adding anything good to your resonance field either.

Very Important Point: Having read the last paragraph again I need to make something crystal clear:

Do not believe all the crap you’ve been feed about forgiving everyone else first, that ‘forgiveness is a holy path’. Here’s why most of the people I’ve met who are preaching this kind of fertilizer are by enlarge emotionally shut down, full of  buried resentment, topped off with a plastic smile.

That my friends is not, never will be, forgiveness.

I do agree that forgiveness can be a holy path, however, it needs to be ‘healthy forgiveness.’

Healthy Forgiveness has a very important level of accountability. In order to truly forgive we must first take full accountability for our part in whatever it was, (That doesn’t mean finding a new reason to beat the crap out of yourself) as well as seeing ‘their’ part in it.

Bottom line; not forgiving doesn’t help you or anyone else, but know this; healthy forgiveness has nothing to do with forgetting. And in truth:

There is no real forgiveness of another until we learn to forgive ourselves. ~Dõv Baron

Carrying around all that guilt, shame and resentment is like carrying an anti abundance shield, so take my advice and dump it like a bad enchilada. It’s up to you, what I want you to know whether you believe it or not, whether you are experiencing it or not, this is an abundant universe.  So drop your abundance shield, forgive yourself and decide what you need to do next. Or to put it another way:

Forgive and Let The Abundance Flow!

I look forward to your comments and feedback.

Until next time live with courage, Dov…

When you stop and think about it much of our daily experiences are nothing than the same past experiences playing out in a new senerio.

What we don’t look at actually controls us; Because it becomes the undercurrent of our personality. Just because “it” is in your past on a time line doesn’t mean that you have actually let “it” go. Here’s a quick exercise.

Think about the last time someone cut you off in traffic, or some other equally frustrating behaviour.

If you remember that you got way beyond mad … and into the range of pure outrage, that’s called a ‘disproportionate response.’

Simply put, it means that from an onlookers standpoint the incident might have rated a ‘3’ on an anger response scale; however, your reaction was more like a 6 or more.

And if you can’t remember a traffic incident, think of another time where you’ve become incredibly angry at the drop of a hat. (Even if, because you have become masterfull at stuffing it no one else would know).

Anytime that happens, it’s a reliable indicator that there’s other ‘stuff’ that you’re upset about. Being outraged at this driver is just a safe place to express what you don’t feel safe expressing in another situation.

Bottom line: If you are having disproportionate responses, your past is not in the past at all and until you deal with “it”, it’s running your life!

What we refuse to acknowledge about ourselves becomes the driving force for a destiny we may not desire.

Try this: Watch for disproportionate responses and ask yourself: “What might I be angry about that actually has nothing to do with this situation?”

There is magnificence within you… Who you are is so much greater than your history. However, until you look at your history you are destined to repeat it in one form or another.

Leave me your feedback, I want to know what you think.

In Gratitude, Dov…

I’m excited for everyone who’s already registered for the “Deep” telecasts; two things I can absolutely guarantee; One you’ve never been part of something like this before. And two, you’re going to get some life-changing perspective by completing this tele-series.
I’m already getting feedback from people who were on the live program telling me that they’ve already having breakthroughs and that even in the first module things are getting pretty “Deep”.
Don’t worry if you can’t be “live” on every call, I’m going to post the recording of each call for replay, so you can listen to it when you’re able to. (However, there are many advantages to being on the live tel-casts). Because you will want to give these modules your full attention many people like yourself listen back a couple of times in order to dig and go “Deeper”.
In fact, the tele-series constitutes the first three modules of the “DEEP” workshop, and must be completed by all workshop participants.
So whether you’re able to attend in person or not, you’re able to “eavesdrop” on the first three modules.
It’s my gift to you.
Here are the tele-cast dates, each will be held at 7:15 pm PST (10: 15 pm EST):
Module #1: Monday July 7th : Replay is now up at www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com
Module #2: Monday July 14th
Module #3: Monday July 21th
IMPORTANT!:I’ve also made a link for you to a downloadable PDF of the home assignment questions.
If you haven’t registered, click this link www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com
See you on the next exciting instalment of “Deep”
With Gratitude, Dov…

“Most people’s lives are nothing more than the realization of a promise they made to themselves”

Let’s take this a little deeper…

These promises that we made to ourselves were in all likelihood ‘unconsciously’ chosen and chances are you made them when you were very young. (Although as you read this you may have had a ‘light bulb moment’ and realized exactly when you made your promise and why you did it).

I spend a lot of my time teaching people how to create thier reality. However, what I also say is that most people are creating their realty at a very unconscious level. In fact many of them only get conscious of ‘creating reality’ when something different shows up and they quickly scramble to get things back to “normal”.

Now there’s that fascinating word: “Normal”. For most people reading this you are bright enough to realize that normal is at least somewhat subjective. I n that what’s normal for you may not be normal at all for someone living on a different continent in a completely different culture.

However, ‘normal’ goes much “Deeper” than that. Most people without even knowing it, for the most part are unconsciously busy doing their best to keep things normal. But again please note; the normal I’m speaking about is your own version of normal.

For some people when I say normal they think of the suburban family with two point five kids, a white picket fence and an minivan. But that’s not the kind of normal I am discussing here.

What I’m referring to is your own particular brand of normal. Have you ever heard the saying: “Situation Normal All F*%ked Up?” Well for some people that kind of situation is as indicated, their own brand of ‘normal’. Normal is relative to the individual, as normal as church on Sunday is to one person, smoking crack is to another.

So here’s my challenge to you to bathe in these questions for a while…

What have you made normal that might not be healthy? And…

What promise might you have made to yourself that without you realizing it, is in fact keeping your life pretty much the same as it was?

If you really want to dig deeper on this go and have a look at www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com

Post a comment and let me know what you think.

Dov…

You can spend a lifetime committed to excellence, and in the eyes of many you can achieve it, only to remain unfulfilled until You…

Discover and Connect With Your “DEEP Authentic Self!”™

Many of you have heard whispers about this program and have wanted to know more, however up until now we were not letting anyone know too much…
You’ll understand why in a minute. This is the fully immerse “Deep Authentic Self”™ program, that will teach you how to discover, understand and neutralize the emotional triggers that are directing your life… while addressing that gut-level feeling that tells you, (despite all your success so far), that there’s still something missing.

I want you to make a very informed decision if you’re going to apply for admission into the workshop experience … Why? Because I can only accept a very limited number of participants (22 in total).

With so few spaces available, I can’t afford to admit anyone who isn’t 100% committed to taking full advantage of this opportunity. (Simply writing a check will NOT get you in).

There’s something else that’s very different about the “Deep Authentic Self”™ Workshop, and that is this; the first three modules will be delivered via webcast we are making them available to EVERYONE at NO-COST, just register at http://www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com

Module #1 for “Deep Authentic Self”™
Monday, July 7, 2008