You are not alone

August 14, 2009 | Comments | Relationship, law of attraction, mind power, motivation, personal development, psychology

I had a dream, in that dream you were having a major challenge because someone had rejected you or what you believed to be true. With a fake smile and a positive attitude you were pretending it wasn’t bothering you… I could see that it was.

I stopped you and asked if you trusted me?…You said you did.  Looking you in the eye and giving you all my attention, I said; Please remember that you are not alone, unless you make yourself alone. Reach out, there’s no shame in being in a difficult situation. The shame is to think we need to hide.

Until you begin making a shift to thinking, feeling and behaving in ways that are independent of the need to please others, you will never truly embrace following your heart and soul’s passion.  Furthermore, if you do not develop the kind of independence I’m referring to, you can be pretty certain that true wealth will also evade you.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting that you become some heartless ‘a-hole’ who doesn’t care about anyone. No, this is about understanding that when you begin to follow your path, recognize your unique value, and make decisions based on that, money and wealth will flow to you. Once this begins to happen you can also be fairly certain that you will, plain and simple begin to piss some folks off.

You are not alone, we, the hearts,  souls and minds dedicated to raising the consciousness of the planet are here for you and with you.

I look forward to your comments and feedback.

Until next time, live with courage, Dov…

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  • Liz
    Fabulous Dov!! and just in time . Love Liz
  • Joy
    Hi Dov!

    Thank You so much for Your article, it was so timely. I had just had a misunderstanding with someone that has an attitude problem, i was pissed and unforgiving but i decided to let her know i didnt like the rude way she spoke to me and she even spoke to me with more disdain and she was even more rude, i've been feeling the need to forgive her but it is so hard since she is still claiming to be right. after reading this now, i'll not attempt to forgive and forget or even hide the fact that i'm pissed but i'll just try and flow with the forgiveness. Thank You so much
  • George Harris
    The path of life is difficult and I find a resonance, at least intellectually, with Lama Jimpa again. The problem is to transcend what we think we are and who we really are. When the diciple is ready the guru appears. So are Dov and Jimpa offering some guidance? Ultimately, as always, the changes lie within me.

    My thanks to you both.

    George.
  • KEVIN ROSS
    Hi Dov
    I know this message is late but I want to express my feelings to you
    since i got THE EQUATION For MANIFESTION Package it changed my life
    im 44 years old my true soul is crying out to be free for expression wealth
    to live in better world to get of a dirty getto to live long and prosper to connect with the Unververse my forever But I tried to make that diffence to my wife
    my co workers my neighbors my mother their minds are negative My Co Workers dont trust me My wife is from Ecador She work teach me Spanish
    But she wants to learn english I want to help her have a better life But she listens to every else The problem is their egos are controlling them they will accept losing to fall down at all cost I myself refuse to let my ego be the driver anymore
    Sometimes Dov If I have to carry the new journey of my life bymy self to excell i will my pain important I refuse to go the path of regret any more I know who I am they dont They want to keep their thumbs in their mouths I took mine out
    Thank you Dov
  • How true Dov! I felt the shifts coming two years ago. I knew that I would have to be exposed into my true self and couldn't hide anymore with the changes happening in our DNA and all us here to be helpers for the change had to show up and remember who we are as James Ray says!

    I am a Soul intuitive and that meant that perhaps I wouldn't be accepted by the public and would have to live a life of lonileness. So I started to run the other way and pleased the heck out of everybody to be accepted...and then one day I got in a head on car crash...STOP was the message.

    I have since redesigned my whole life and stepped into my essence. It wasn't so bad and little shakey at first realizing it was me I had to accept and once that happened it didn't matter. I have since had people calling out of the blue, some even with wrong phone numbers lost souls trying to find their way...it is quite magical being in your true essence and has inspired a book in me.

    It is not lonely out here when you are in true service with your soul!

    Thank you for your true self and the leadership you bring for us in this new earth shift......we are all proud of you. Namaste Kim
  • Olivia
    For the courage to be ourselves every moment of our lives! Even if people look at us as we're just crazy guys who dream to raise human consciousness. May our dream come true! With love & gratitude, Olivia
  • Stuart
    As was said here before I feel that this was aimed squarely at me, as I do, most of the time prefer to be alone.
    I do enconter strong resistance from my partner and also whithin myself to the changes and new beliefs.
    I some times feel that these things are hard to communicate to my partner whom I feel is stuck in a loop of making the same mistakes again and again.
    Maybe it is because I also recognise this in myself.
    I do, however have support from a couple of good friends, and this helps keep me in touch with what I need.
    It is good to know that you are out there too.

    With grateful thanks,
    Stuart.
  • Nat gibson
    Holy nail me over the head there Dovinder. Like,why you so psychic man? Thanks for the pep talk Needed that big time big big time. Been missing learning and feeling like I'm stuck always bein' the teach to the rugrats, then BAm I'm up and learning agAin. Everything is always in front of our noses, seriously y'all, you just gotta ask for help even if it's just to the air and be willing to recieve it, open up to it, accept it, surrender to it if it drags up some pbain and be glad for making everything clearer and brighter and lighter. Love you man, nat
  • Pieter
    "this is about understanding that when you begin to follow your path, recognize your unique value, and make decisions based on that, money and wealth will flow to you. Once this begins to happen you can also be fairly certain that you will, plain and simple begin to piss some folks off."

    Dov,
    That rings so true right now for my wife.She is about to self-publish,what I truly believe,her break away book.Over the course of the last 6 months or so her boss has been really hard on her.She has maintained her near flawless performance(she works in radio) but, he still degrades her both professionally and personally.It has become very abusive.It is my belief that this is her Resonance making him feel uncomfortable as he is a very "numbers" oriented person.He is fascinated with how much everyone makes both celebrity and regular folks....its an obsession,its an addiction.

    I try my best to comfort her with the above explination as she dreads going to work everyday.It was a job she absolutely loved.I do worry about her.

    Pieter
  • Lina Riga-Berlin
    Thank You! Dov,
    Somehow, you always get the dart right on target. Thank you for the awareness, the motivation and support. For helping me to really dig deep into myself, helping me to make that shift, to think, feel and change my ways for the better. To listen to my soul crying out for help, for the need of change. I know now that I have value and even though I come across challenging moments of having to make decisions, I can know make them with some clarity without having doubt or feeling bad. It's truely great to have a mentor like you and receiving these messages from you, really helps me to believe in my potential and strive to better myself. That is happening, everyday I see the progress, I feel more powerful to make those decisions to move forward. I feel those moments of success and I trust my ever increasing ability to create to achieve my goals and dreams.
    I look forward for your Blogs Everyweek and the messages you deliver in them!
    Forever Grateful, Lina.
  • Diane
    Hi Dov
    I felt this was aimed right at me!! Divine timing! As I am out of work I do miss the usual daily contact with people - doing the EFM and some other practises are great ways to use my time but actually interacting with others, especially like-minded ones is missing. Your DVDs really bring you into my home! Not feeling alone is so important (although time alone to relflect has its merits) and I'm working on getting back on my path and raising energy levels again - though that seems to mean a major up-heaval again, and I'm ready for that, making the plans.

    Heartfelt thanks for the support and guidance.

    Love
    Diane
  • The negative society in which we all reside is almost demanding that we look after them before thinking about ourself. 'Dont be selfish' is the order to infants.
    Yet many time when we want a hand from some of these others we find we are alone. Then when we do decide to go it alone we are considered uncaring.
    When it comes to taking responsibility for your own empowerment we face the gauntlet of heartless A/hole comments. This is where we have to stand strong and consider who and what will be of help to us in our goals to go ahead, we should then dismiss the toxic elements around us or at least close our ears to their demands. Being independent of life sapping elements and their cries for undue attention, and concentrating on what we can do for ourselves independently is the answer to the situation. Yes others can help us and others will if you seek them out. ( Dov Baron for intance)however the main decisions to be made in order to achieve your dreams in life will always come from within.
    cheers John
  • Ed Croucher UK
    Well, Dov, I quite often prefer to be alone, in order to clarify the fact that we are all connected!
    Yes, sure, I have a problem, but that's connected, too. We've a hologram to transform.
    I know ;) It may well work from micro to macro....so transform I must.....needs a bit of sync, though.
    I've a sneaking suspicion that the 'problem' is really my view of the 'solution.' I'm coming alive, we are coming alive, present and correct. Whoa!
    Thanks, Dov.
    Love,
    ed
  • trish
    wow that was just what i needed to here.
    i am 4 months into a six month recovery from a dirt bike accident and for the most part have managed to mantain a possitve aditude how ever this last week has been tough and i have been feeling very alone,after reading this note i went out for coffie and as bad as this sounds i was delighted to see many people limping this truley made me happy to realize that i wasnt alone and that all i needed to do was open my eyes to what was going on around me. next thing you know i was talking to people that had been through things that were very similar to my own circumstances and i was able to help them see the benifits of a positve aditude.
    thank you very much
  • Cate L
    So true Dov, That's the second time I've heard that message today & it's just 10.55 in Melbourne! Until we learn to dance to our own authentic tune, we give our power away & in so doing forget who we really are. The journey home can be an awesome adventure. Why die with the music still in us when we can make the choice to find our voice & sing our own unique tune? It begins with a conscious decision! Warmest Cate
  • Awesome post Dov!! I've just recently wrote a very similar blog post. This is the HOT topic at the moment. Alot of us seem to be experiencing or revisiting some bad circumstances.

    It is a great feeling to know I am NOT alone in stopping to analyze where I'm at and begin to move forward again.
  • Jimpa
    Hello Dov,
    This topic is often the heart of addiction. The old person must die for the new person to be born. Religion has a lot to say about this. Letting go of past behaviors and relationships is often difficult and frightful. One finds themselves with overwhelming feelings of isolation. The Buddha said "the world is what you think it is." So in changing our perspectives of the world and ourselves we create a new resonance and with patience those who are resonating with us will begin to appear to help us and journey with us. New worlds appear to challenge us to explore them.
    To sucessfully transcend one must have a complete faith that creation will supply you with everything you need. We are not apart from universe we are a part of it and the nature of the universe is abundance.
    Thank you Dov for being a friend and companion on this incrediable adventure called life!

    Many Blessings,
    Lama Jimpa
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