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We are in a time where many people are finding themselves asking deeper questions about their lives…

Questions like: What explanation have you had for your life being the way it is?
Pause for a second, take a deep breath, and really consider that question.

I’m not only referring to the difficulties in your life, I’m also referring to where your life is fantastic. Let me clarify. I’m talking about all of it; your life as a package.

…Maybe you feel you are where you are due to fate. Maybe as you ask that question you hear a voice in your head that tells you, you are lucky; or unlucky. Do either of those statements truly serve as satisfactory explanations as to why your life is the way it is?

Maybe the way you see it is that you got to where you are in life through something called Karma; that God is some kind of mega-accountant in the sky who does yearly, monthly, weekly, and daily tallies of all your good and bad deeds (or was that Santa?). Then, this magnificent accounting god dishes out the luck, both good and bad, in accordance with what’s in your good/bad account.

Does this sound ludicrous to you? Great, now we’re on the same page.

If those reasons are not how you get what shows up in your life, then maybe this concept (which I’m sure you’ve heard before) is the correct one:Let us create mankind in our own image.”

Over the last twenty plus years of teaching workshops, seminars and working with people one-on-one it has become very obvious that…

The outer circumstances of your life are a direct result of the inner state of your being.

One of the most important things you will ever learn about success, whatever that means to you, is that what’s going on inside your thoughts and feeling ends up showing up outside, in your reality.

We are not victims of circumstance…

We are both the one who manufacturers and experiences these circumstances.

No one magically finds themselves in a divorce court, a prison cell or having a bullet removed with it being a result of something that was going on within them.

These events are a direct result of all the beliefs, thoughts, emotions feelings and behaviors you have had up to that point. That doesn’t make you wrong or right, what it makes you is either paying attention or being ignorant of what’s been going on inside you. Either way, it’s your choice, it’s your result.

I look forward to your comments and feedback.
Until next time, Live with Courage, Dov…

P.S. This posting is an excerpt from my new book: “Don’t Read This…your ego won’t like it”

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Consider this… Modern Science tells us that at a basic level, you and I, and everything else in the universe is vibrating energy.

Now, for many people these days that’s not big news . However, what you may not have thought about is the context of the word “everything” that means; every thought, every emotion and everyone of your beliefs boil down to, vibrating energy .

Everything about you and around you is at its core vibrating energy.

So how do you attract what you want? Well if you want more wealth in your life, then you must vibrate and resonate at the same frequency as the thing you want. That creates a match in resonance and when there is a match in resonance what you want begins to want you .

Keep that in mind:

You have to be in the same resonant frequency as the thing you want.

You have to be in the same frequency as the relationships , the situations , and the experiences that you want . If you are not in the same frequency as what you want, it won’t matter how much you visualize, affirm or hope — you won’t get it. In fact there’s a good chance that the more of that “stuff” that you do the more likely you are to end up with an abundance but it won’t be money , just frustration.

However, when you know how to be in resonance with what you want…

life becomes fully synchronistic.

The most successful people in the world know this . They are not luckier than you. And they don’t possess a special ability to “get connected” any more than you do. Yet, when you first get into resonance you (or rather your ego/mind) may not want to believe it . Very often the first time my students manifest greater levels of success than they ever dreamed possible, they say, “You know, Dõv, all these great things just keep happening for me and it seems like it’s coming out of nowhere .”

But guess what… It’s not coming out of nowhere.  Their resonance has changed!

Here’s where it all gets a bit tricky because too many people think getting in resonance is some magical formula that will erase the economic melt down they’ve been feeling.  It won’t, that’s not how it all works.

Here’s how it works: When someone manifest something in their lives it does not pop out of thin air. What has happened is at a mental, emotional and core level this person is resonating at a completely different frequency. They are now in resonance with what it is they want, and it’s building upon itself. They have created a synchronicity that brings to them more and more of what they are in resonance with.

But again, don’t get carried away with magical thinking. Those who are truly in resonance with what they want are not sitting around waiting for miracles . No… 

Those who really understand resonance are the ones who are the first to step up and take personal responsibility for creating the life of their dreams .

 

They are the ones who take the risks that others so quickly shy away from while waiting for a genie to appear.

Bottom line: If you want to manifest something into your life you must be willing to do whatever it takes to get it in your life. In other words you are willing to go for it even if it doesn’t manifest .

These are the truly successful manifestors because they can see that the universe does not manifest things out of wishes and pixie dust upon your request. They understand that what you get instead is opportunities, doorways that you must have the courage to walk through to claim what you want.

Simply put: In my experience:

manifestation is as much a result of the willingness to act out of courage and daring as it is any “secret”

Until next time, Live with Courage, Dov…

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