Change without changing?
Jul 7th 2008Dov BaronDeep & Uncategorized & law of attraction & news & psychology
As you might know “Deep” module #1 is tonight… (Details at www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com I was doing my prep and realized something that I’ll go into tonigt, but wanted to share some of it with you here…
The truth is and I’m sure you know it too… there are all kinds of people out there who say they want to change, and sure they “think” they do, but they don’t really.
How do I know?.. Because they are not willing to do what it takes to change!
With close to 25 years of doing this work what I have found most common is that people say they want to change as long as it doesn’t interfere with, or inconvenience them to much. The truth is:
“people want to change as long as they don’t have to change”.
But here’s the news: You do know what’s going on underneath! You can fool some of the people some of the time, heck you can even fool yourself some of the time.
But the truth is in your quiet moments you know when the time has come and you are either going to box yourself into a deeper and deeper level of numb, where not only your sadness and pain get buried in your body but, so does any chance of true joy, fulfillment and happiness…
Or you’re on a steady slope into your own personal version of hell, where it will eventually get so painful that you will move mountains in order to change. (I know that I’ve done both and you don’t have to do either)
I challenge you to decide because, today you stand at the crossroads. You can let your ego tell you that I’m an ass for saying this, that I’m only in it for the money or some other crap about how it’s not that bad.
But the truth is. I do care. I care very deeply, in fact I care so deeply that I’m willing to tell you the truth. And like it says on www.DeepAuthenticSelf.com “The truth hurts… But it also sets you free”
Let me know what you think below
2 Comments »
Bik on 08 Jul 2008 at 10:02 am #
Hi Dov,
This reminds of the quote by the famous philosopher, James Allen,
“Man is made or unmade by himself. By the right choice he ascends. As a being of power, intelligence, and love, and the lord of his own thoughts, he holds the key to every situation. Men are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they therefore remain bound.”
That is so true and I know I personally have been guilty of buying many self help books, CD’s, etc but in some or in most cases I haven’t really completed the actual work that is involved for obtaining self-mastery.
In some cases I have completely done the homework but have unexpectedly stopped after 1-2 months.
There is a level of discomfort that is required in order to really learn and live and integrate the concepts in our daily lives.
I know you say that you have to get comfortable with discomfort.
But are there any practical steps that you can suggest to consciously do this since our brains are so wired for “homeostatis”(comfort zone)?
Darlene on 25 Jul 2008 at 3:25 am #
Looks like the souls in resonance are once again working on the same thing in our own ways. It is wonderful the work that you are doing Dov. May all who attend have the benefits of Dov’s wisdom and the foundation that has been laid over the last 25 years.
It really is time to go deeper and deeper to integrate our Soul’s purpose in all areas of our lives so that the intent of our Soul is made physically manifest. We must all have a 100% commitment to having our life’s purpose be in full bloom. Everything happens in divine timing when we have the commitment to fulfill our soul’s purpose.
I know that all who attend will experience a freedom that they have never felt before. The time is now.
Good on you Dov for what you have accomplished. You are reaping the rewards of your focus in life.
We all have our own timing as we claim our “Right of Consciousness” that is unique to us and for us to share with others. Sharing it isn’t always easy as we are sometimes met with resistance or people that are threatened by us being our authentic self.
I agree, it’s not always comfortable going the distance that is to be our authentic self.. I have learned to forgive that which is unconsciously trying to siphon off my energy to possess that which is my “Right of Consciousness”, my soul’s purpose. It has taken me many years to get to the seed cause of this occurrence and I have learned that boundaries are much more than physical. They are also psychic as well. Establishing and strengthening them on this level is important. This is what makes the change in the physical realm.
I am always reminded of this Quote from Ghandhi.
“There is more to life than creating it’s speed. Although some of us would really like it to hurry up, we must learn patience. Think about Chinese bamboo. It is a fragile plant. If you care for it really well the 1st year, it grows 2 inches. If you care for it really well the 2nd year, it grows 2 inches, and the 3rd year 2 inches, and the 4th year 2 inches, and the 5th year 80ft. It has it’s own growing season and so do we.”
For some of us some things are a long time coming but we always have the joy of new beginnings. Going into the 5th year brings much expansion and alignment with all that is intended by a Divine Plan orchestrated by everyone in resonance with their Divine Purpose.
Everyone who is fortunate enough to attend Dov’s Deep Intensive enjoy!.. and be willing to dive in to those murky waters armed with determination and commitment to your path. You will have clarity and be well rewarded for your efforts. We always are.
With gratitude and blessings always Dov for the work you do and for your unique journey. It impacts all of us even if we are not in the room.
In service and peace,
Darlene